My mother (left) poses with a friend on Sherman Avenue, Inwood, Manhattan, mid-1930s. |
My mother is living in a corner of her childhood.
She doesn’t suffer from
dementia, although her memory has worsened.
Her intellect persists, fed by the New
York Times and the New Yorker. She is not grieving; she is not pained. She just keeps cycling through 1940 where she lives in an apartment on West 211th Street and attends junior high school at P. S. 52.
Her story is set in a particular
place called Inwood, located at the northern tip of the island of Manhattan. While my mother was growing up there in the
1930s, the neighborhood was home to mostly Irish and some Jewish families who
lived harmoniously in Art Deco-style apartment buildings built between the wars.
Contemporary photo of Inwood Hill Park with the Hudson River visible through the trees |
As a little girl, living on
Sherman Avenue, she liked to ride her tricycle along the sidewalk in front of
her building. One day, she looked across the street to watch a police car pull up
in front of a candy store. The cops
leapt out and busted through the door, dragging out pinball machines and
smashing them in the street. Mayor LaGuardia believed that pinball encouraged
gambling and corrupted youth.
The family moved to a
four-room apartment on 211th Street. An only child, she drew adoration from her
grandmother, mother, and father. Her parents owned luncheonettes and worked
long days so she ate dinner with just her grandmother. The two were very close;
they shared a bedroom. Sarah Olcott cooked, shopped, sewed, and – the story may
be apocryphal – brewed something alcoholic which she sold to the local
policemen.
The radio, a 20” Philco made
of dark wood, sat on a table near a chair and ottoman. On Sunday mornings her
father sat on the ottoman with his head close to the fabric screen that covered
the speaker, listening to Father Coughlin.
When Father Coughlin, a Roman
Catholic priest out of Michigan, started his radio program in the early
thirties, he was a New Dealer. Then he became obsessed with Jewish bankers and,
as the decade progressed, enthusiastically embraced Hitler and Mussolini.
My mother asked her father
why he listened to such a horrible man. Her father replied that he liked to
hear the other point of view.
Scholars have thoroughly examined
the importance of radio to all Americans during the war years. My mother
remembers Edward R. Murrow’s “This is London” and commentary by William Shirer.
Those reports must have been thrilling and chilling.
Her grandmother Sarah had emigrated
from Kiev around 1900, at the age of 30. She arrived with two young children
and her younger sister, Rebecca. The eldest sister, Zelda, stayed behind.
Everyone assumed that Zelda had perished at Babi Yar, but a few years ago we
learned that she came to the U. S. during the late 1930s. The secret puzzled my
mother, who concluded that Sarah and Zelda had argued about something serious
and never reconciled.
Corn Exchange Bank, West 207th Street, Inwood, 1920s. My mother's mother kept an account at this branch. |
Rebecca’s husband turned out
to be crazy and slashed her throat with a kitchen knife. Her two sons, by then grown up and both
lawyers, “took care of him,” according to my mother. There may have been restraining
order or perhaps the guy was institutionalized.
Rebecca’s daughter, Rhoda,
married a man who went into the Venetian blind business after the war. He did very well for himself, as they say.
Rebecca’s other daughter, Faye,
was blonde and blue-eyed. Since Faye
didn’t “look Jewish,” she snagged a top job at a bank. While on a ship headed to Paris for a bank
conference, Faye met a British oil engineer who worked for BP in Iraq. They
married and lived in Iraq through the 1950s.
Sadness intruded. My mother’s uncle, Ben, had been gassed in the
Meuse-Argonne during World War I. He returned
to the U. S. and spent the rest of his life in V. A. hospitals.
Her mother had TB and spent
years in hospitals and sanitariums.
I wonder about this attachment
to childhood. Surely not every 89-year old feels like crawling back into the
past, even if it is comforting.
Recently I realized that my
mother’s point of reference has always been those years on West 211th
Street. When we were growing up, she excessively
invoked her childhood. I wonder if she
is now trying to figure out something or someone, but the fact is that
reflection has never been her forte.
And so she simply replays the
past. At least she knows how it will
turn out.
Summer Afternoon by Ernest Lawson My mother remembers the ancient tulip tree depicted in this 1908 painting of Inwood Hill Park. |
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